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You might be giving yourself the wrong diagnosis. If you're a great storyteller, talking too much wouldn't be a problem. If you're gifted and spending all you
by alexashka 7y ago
You might be giving yourself the wrong diagnosis.
If you're a great storyteller, talking too much wouldn't be a problem.
If you're gifted and spending all your time perfecting your craft, others will notice your dedication and appreciate it.
If you're intelligent, having your own perspective is interesting and unique.
Do you notice the pattern? You have to be really, really good, at something that brings yourself and other people, value. Lots of accomplished and beloved individuals have had inflated egos and took things personally, just look at Michael Jordan. The difference is, they achieved something.
You can achieve too, because just about everything people do can be vastly improved upon. Find your niche, find what you can help society improve upon. It'll take 10-15 years to get there, so if you want to, you better get going :)
The magic pill everyone wants is 'how do other people like me more' or 'how do I get them to act in ways that I prefer'. The solution is you rise so far above, that they can't help but feel like 'holy shit' around you. That takes 10-15 years of dedicated work, unless you were born beautiful, in which case this problem never arises :)