Why do you want to change? Regret anything? I don't know the first thing about you, so it's hard to say what is going to help. If you truly are a narcissist al

Why do you want to change? Regret anything? I don't know the first thing about you, so it's hard to say what is going to help. If you truly are a narcissist all bets are off, but perhaps you are just a bit self-centered which might mean there is still hope after all. I'd look for books on being a "building lasting relations", "how to deal with emotions", "how to be a good mother/father". That kind of stuff. Bring out the wounded inner child and see if some CPR is still an option.