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Me and my partner are working on actually hacking this to increase love, respeft abd compassion in our relationship. I am discovering that i can only love her

by idclip 7y ago

Me and my partner are working on actually hacking this to increase love, respeft abd compassion in our relationship. I am discovering that i can only love her as deeply as i can love myself - what you said about the “getting used to” - i will Forward to her. In a way, we must never get used to each other. And that’s deep work ... Sorry you also were victim of projection .. its tge mechanism that holds us hostage as a species - and threatens us with war even. My ex called me sexist and racist as well - i knew she was a good person, and i know i wasnt those things, and i even understood her father trauma which made her say those things, but it still hurts. Its our job to contain all this .. it really helps growth. Did you consider reading books about children upbringing psychology? Its very helpful!

mikorym 7y ago
> children upbringing psychology Is this psychology that focuses on when you were a child and how you were raised (as opposed to child psychology)?
- idclip 7y ago
  Mhmm, im not a complete expert. Just a dude who reads books. I understand child paychology i in the “playing and imagination” - attachment theory model - What i actually meant is a rott parenting book, something such as the informed parent perhaps! A friend sweats by NLP, but i find it dubios myself.