If your commander in chief is unwilling or unable to use nuclear weapons you are effectively disarmed. However, it is unlikely that anyone would be happy about

If your commander in chief is unwilling or unable to use nuclear weapons you are effectively disarmed. However, it is unlikely that anyone would be happy about the use of such weapons. If any nation was threatened by imminent nuclear attack they would expect their government to use whatever means it had available to prevent such an attack, including the use of nuclear weapons, were such available. It is unlikely they would be happy or cheering. I am not a psychologist but it seems to me that being pleased about the use of a nuclear weapon would be aberrant behavior; far outside the normal range. Only a tiny number of people are likely to demonstrate this level of psychopathy.