I recently tried kava, and found it to be quite relaxing. I found the numbing effect to be mild, even after having quite a few, and otherwise would compare the

I recently tried kava, and found it to be quite relaxing. I found the numbing effect to be mild, even after having quite a few, and otherwise would compare the experience to drinking coffee (but obviously going the other direction) in the sense that it was enjoyable and seemed mostly harmless. It had the added benefit of being a way to enjoy a night out with a friend in a sort of bar like atmosphere, but without the negative effects of alcohol. In fact, I think what was most noticible was that the atmosphere was festive and convivial, but without all the stupid bullshit that happens with drunk people. I would recommend trying this to anyone looking for that kind of alternative. If there was a downside, it was that getting myself stuck with a $70 kava-bar tab from tieing one on in the Haight kind of made me want to rethink my life choices at the end of the night. On the other hand, much greater regrets can be had from going out drinking...