Huh... first time I've been accused of gaslighting. I am realizing that I completely misinterpreted your initial comment, however—sorry about that. I was interp

Huh... first time I've been accused of gaslighting. I am realizing that I completely misinterpreted your initial comment, however—sorry about that. I was interpreting your comment as discussing a pronount referring to a specific individual rather than a generic person. I also would use "they" in that context, though alternating he/she can also work. Sorry about the confusion (really).