At no point did the poster wish (or anyone arguing for gender equality) for a kid to have identical relationships with parents. It is about each gender being ab

At no point did the poster wish (or anyone arguing for gender equality) for a kid to have identical relationships with parents. It is about each gender being able to invest as much time as the other (if they so chose), thereby making sure each relationship has the potential to reach the same depth (barely present father has been a trope for a very long time) and does not force one gender to sacrifice their carriers over the other (because getting children often boils down to that, and the numbers backing that up are contested by nobody). In other words, you chose to attack a straw-man, and it is important for the discussion that you don't. Whenever I see a man doing that I assume that he is likely not very interested in hearing about problems others do experience.