> Research has shown this to be optimal (time spent with your children later in life closer to adolescent years matters more than their younger years). > they'

> Research has shown this to be optimal (time spent with your children later in life closer to adolescent years matters more than their younger years). > they're not at an age yet where I can fully appreciate time with them. Now that sounds closer to the truth. It's not about what's best for "them", it's about how you can _enjoy yourself_ more.