This is a great point. This is why being an "ally" is so important. If you lucked into fitting in to society by virtue of birth, you have more weirdness points

This is a great point. This is why being an "ally" is so important. If you lucked into fitting in to society by virtue of birth, you have more weirdness points you can spend to help move society in the direction of accepting those people whose existence means they are already short on points.