Having kids when you're not ready for them and getting cancer or into a car crash are two very different things, I hope you can see that. And if people change

Having kids when you're not ready for them and getting cancer or into a car crash are two very different things, I hope you can see that. And if people change their opinions when they end up on the opposite side of the situation, those opinions probably weren't worth much to begin with and will likely change again once things turn around.