What we calling polarization and toxicity is actually 2 problems. Disagreement and bad manners. Disagreements are always solved the same way. Either by coming

What we calling polarization and toxicity is actually 2 problems. Disagreement and bad manners. Disagreements are always solved the same way. Either by coming to an agreement or agreeing to disagree. Bad manners is a much bigger problem that has a variety of solutions that may or may not work, and are totally up to the individual. Bad manners also prevents problem #1 (disagreements) from being resolved.