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Very interesting: this is one possible explanation for all the times I've heard someone say something that doesn't make sense to me, and I go "Can you hear your
by fomojola 7y ago
Very interesting: this is one possible explanation for all the times I've heard someone say something that doesn't make sense to me, and I go "Can you hear yourself right now? How did that sound to you when you thought about saying it".
And I guess the answer is no: they can't. This might genuinely be the first time they've heard those words uttered.
- swinglock 7y agoSorry for the unsolicited feedback and I know that it was an example, but to me saying that in particular is quite rude. If you did not understand what your peer said you would likely get a better response if you said you did not understand and try to ask a question to have it phrased in another way.
- fomojola 7y agoNo apologies necessary: I generally try to be as generous as possible when interpreting people's words. In pretty much every case where I've actually done that the person I was talking to agreed that the words didn't quite match the intended message.