Shouldn't this be "Ask HN", not "Tell HN"? I was turned off by the blunt statement of "how to behave". I agree that this is worth considering, but I disagree

Shouldn't this be "Ask HN", not "Tell HN"? I was turned off by the blunt statement of "how to behave". I agree that this is worth considering, but I disagree that presenting your opinion as instructions is an effective way to start the conversation. Disclaimer: I am not using any voting techniques, up or down, on this post or any comments therein.