Good advice. At the same time, in some cases, this approach can bring real world consequences? E.g. might result in that other silly and superior acting person

Good advice. At the same time, in some cases, this approach can bring real world consequences? E.g. might result in that other silly and superior acting person, getting the job, and you didn't. Or the girls like him better because he seems confident? But anyway, generally, I like the Zen-out approach. And probably it's possible to be a good self esteem Noob too -- I mean, to stay happy when one tries and fails repeatedly, also when everyone is watching, although maybe not so easy.