That is a great story, and I agree that it seems your son following your example. I have never seen a child successfully change a behavior that the parent refus

That is a great story, and I agree that it seems your son following your example. I have never seen a child successfully change a behavior that the parent refuses to change first, unless they have some kind of personal epiphany, which I've only really seen from teens or young adults that have just left home. I have had the same experience in IT, it's brutal to have false accusations of system failures so causally thrown my way. (It's what got me to put GIT on all template editors) But it's also good experience to have so I don't repeat to back towards others because it feels so debilitating. I appreciate the "desirable" part of your statement, as it certainly is better to give up on a false premise quickly than to try and defend it only to have fail on you later.