Not stupid at all, I would feel the same way. Congratulations on being awesome! Aside from yourself, it's obviously a big call for the wife and kids to begin n

Not stupid at all, I would feel the same way. Congratulations on being awesome! Aside from yourself, it's obviously a big call for the wife and kids to begin new lives .. potential source of resentment. Especially if your wife is a homemaker - she'd be leaving behind her well established and important social and support networks for your opportunity, without the distraction of a new job to ease the loss. On the other hand .. it's Google. An opportunity to play with some of the biggest systems on the planet! How secure is/are your current job(s)? Will you be harder to hire in 10 years if you didn't take the Google job? Good luck with your choice. Good problem to have!