This should be treated as warning for people on the part of spectrum: most women's non-STEM communities (and some men's, though I found much less examples) are

This should be treated as warning for people on the part of spectrum: most women's non-STEM communities (and some men's, though I found much less examples) are places to synchronize emotions, not to exchange facts. If you forget this simple observation and force your opinion you'll get in trouble there ten out of ten times. It's possible to introduce cold facts but that also needs form of emotional synchronization which many autists fail to reproduce without training.