In my own experience: 1. everyone starts out like that 2. some realize that and (sometimes having thought of it for a while) make a decision to persist/stop t

In my own experience: 1. everyone starts out like that 2. some realize that and (sometimes having thought of it for a while) make a decision to persist/stop that 3. some years have passed by since, and now you can't get that reaction out of me, only understanding