I'm clueless about these things, still, here's an idea: Ask her, maybe she'll tell you. Talk with her and share your thoughts, the things you wrote just above

I'm clueless about these things, still, here's an idea: Ask her, maybe she'll tell you. Talk with her and share your thoughts, the things you wrote just above. -- Maybe can work, when you're still pretty close friends Again I don't really know and maybe this is a weird idea.