Come on, you started by talking about the country being the most "racist and divided" in Europe, now you're admitting you've not lived there a long time and are

Come on, you started by talking about the country being the most "racist and divided" in Europe, now you're admitting you've not lived there a long time and are talking about expats asking dumb questions. That's not the same thing at all. Immigrants often group together, wherever they come from. Big Russian community where I live. The UK of course has entire areas where the immigrant population doesn't speak English, or where many of the shops are Polish (and use the Polish language). New York famous for certain areas being dominated by certain nationalities at various points (e.g. Italians). It sounds like you think this is uniquely British, but it's not. By the way, I'm a British immigrant living abroad. All but two of my friends are not British. Their friends are also mostly not British. I've got qualifications in German and my girlfriend is German. You're painting with an extremely broad brush here. I think you just don't really notice the Brits that blend in, or other nationalities that don't. As for language, native English speakers of all origins find it hard to learn local languages because nearly everyone learns English as a child and are routinely exposed to English language culture. Native speakers learn, at most, one or two other languages that may not be used at all in the place they end up, and they're rarely exposed to other languages anyway. Naturally that means whoever they talk to is better at English than the other way around, and few people want to struggle through a miniature language class when they have other things to do. Yes, most British immigrants should try harder to learn the language. But it's wrong to claim that's just laziness. When I was first learning lots of the local people here gave a strong impression they didn't actually care or worse, just found it annoying.