This is privilege speaking. As a upper middle class it is easy to scale back.. have more time blah blah Now try that if you are under the mean. Good luck. It i

This is privilege speaking. As a upper middle class it is easy to scale back.. have more time blah blah Now try that if you are under the mean. Good luck. It is absolutely the case that SOMEONE has to pay the bills. If you are making 40-60k and alone you can live pretty ok, now try that with 3 kids. Making so much money you can afford to relax, take time to hangout with kids, take them skiing, buy PC for them, take them travelling, feed them good food. Put them in school where they will make connections for the future. You will absolutely makes a better parent, period.