>One grandmother was a farmer. She took over from my grandfather when he got sick and he became the house husband. I'm not sure what you think this proves. Whe

>One grandmother was a farmer. She took over from my grandfather when he got sick and he became the house husband. I'm not sure what you think this proves. When the choice is "do something or starve" people do all sorts of things they would rather not do, from farming to prostitution to selling their children: https://rarehistoricalphotos.com/4-children-sale-1948/ https://rarehistoricalphotos.com/4-children-sale-1948/ There but for the grace of god went your mother.