Great article, and the same dynamic applies to all genders. I was listening to a podcast the other day where a founder said that the most successful people he k

Great article, and the same dynamic applies to all genders. I was listening to a podcast the other day where a founder said that the most successful people he knew (eg. entrepreneurs) all had the worst family lives - multiple marriages, bad or non-existent relationships with family, etc. Work and family is a trade-off, their is no way around it. One can live a balanced life and be moderately successful. But to be among the best, the most elite, something generally has to give. That's not to say that we can't reform the systems to not make it as "winner-take-all", sort of like how the author suggested.