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Well, that is the way it seems to work out. The divorce rate here is very, very low. However, when people move back, they get caught up in the same (high) divor

Well, that is the way it seems to work out. The divorce rate here is very, very low. However, when people move back, they get caught up in the same (high) divorce rate of the place where they are moving to. In my opinion, family breakdown is very contagious. That is why married people better stay away from divorced ones. Well, that is how it works here. Divorcees are no longer accepted in the community. I think that this approach makes sense, simply, because it works.

seszett 7y ago
You are basically saying that the main (only?) reason for your wife to stay with you is peer pressure because she would otherwise no longer be welcome in "the community", which sounds awfully like abuse to me. I'm still not sure what you meant by "rape" in your comment, but I'm not sure anymore I want to know.
- neokantian 7y ago
  > You are basically saying that the main (only?) reason for your wife to stay with you is peer pressure because she would otherwise no longer be welcome in "the community" Not all of the time, but I am sure that there are occasionally times when it is like that. It is the same for me, actually. That is how a "real" marriage works. > which sounds awfully like abuse to me. Marriage only makes sense in the context of religion. Furthermore, "halal" or "haram" is decided by religious law for us. Last but not least, we never take advice concerning morality from the godless vermin.
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saiya-jin 7y ago
You sound like you have some crappy 'family' life, but judging from your other comments, it is kind of self-explanatory. To each his own, not much can be done here. I hope you don't have kids and don't plan any, and I hope for your wife that you will indeed soon move to a place where as you say 'divorce-rape' is a thing. Its called civilized world.
- neokantian 7y ago
  Anti-natalist remarks are the hallmark of the godless vermin. I repeat again: I do not take lessons in morality from the godless scum. We simply spit on the unbelievers.
  - ars 7y ago
    Did someone hack into your account? This is obviously a troll message, but your older messages are normal.
    - neokantian 7y ago
      Religious people and atheists cannot possibly get along. That is a well-known fact. Never have. Never will. We look down on godless individuals and we despise them. That is simply a non-negotiable part of our religious beliefs. So, whenever I get to deal with moral advice from the godless vermin, I just repeat the same remark all over again: We do not take lessons in morality from the godless vermin.
      - dang 7y ago
        I'm not sure if you're trolling or if this is genuine religious flamewar, but either way you can't post like this here. We've banned this account. If you don't want to be banned, you're welcome to email hn@ycombinator.com and give us reason to believe that you'll follow the rules in the future. https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html
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seszett 7y ago

You are basically saying that the main (only?) reason for your wife to stay with you is peer pressure because she would otherwise no longer be welcome in "the community", which sounds awfully like abuse to me. I'm still not sure what you meant by "rape" in your comment, but I'm not sure anymore I want to know.

neokantian 7y ago
> You are basically saying that the main (only?) reason for your wife to stay with you is peer pressure because she would otherwise no longer be welcome in "the community" Not all of the time, but I am sure that there are occasionally times when it is like that. It is the same for me, actually. That is how a "real" marriage works. > which sounds awfully like abuse to me. Marriage only makes sense in the context of religion. Furthermore, "halal" or "haram" is decided by religious law for us. Last but not least, we never take advice concerning morality from the godless vermin.
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saiya-jin 7y ago

You sound like you have some crappy 'family' life, but judging from your other comments, it is kind of self-explanatory. To each his own, not much can be done here. I hope you don't have kids and don't plan any, and I hope for your wife that you will indeed soon move to a place where as you say 'divorce-rape' is a thing. Its called civilized world.

neokantian 7y ago
Anti-natalist remarks are the hallmark of the godless vermin. I repeat again: I do not take lessons in morality from the godless scum. We simply spit on the unbelievers.
- ars 7y ago
  Did someone hack into your account? This is obviously a troll message, but your older messages are normal.
  - neokantian 7y ago
    Religious people and atheists cannot possibly get along. That is a well-known fact. Never have. Never will. We look down on godless individuals and we despise them. That is simply a non-negotiable part of our religious beliefs. So, whenever I get to deal with moral advice from the godless vermin, I just repeat the same remark all over again: We do not take lessons in morality from the godless vermin.
    - dang 7y ago
      I'm not sure if you're trolling or if this is genuine religious flamewar, but either way you can't post like this here. We've banned this account. If you don't want to be banned, you're welcome to email hn@ycombinator.com and give us reason to believe that you'll follow the rules in the future. https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html
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