I understand what you mean. Yet when you are told something you have to be able to think "yes, this fits my experience, I can interpret it the way you say", oth

I understand what you mean. Yet when you are told something you have to be able to think "yes, this fits my experience, I can interpret it the way you say", otherwise you will not accept it as true. You seem well versed in the matter, can you recommend sources to learn more about all this ?