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This sounds to me more like "better police involvement around the crime of stalking" than "okcupid are bad" I can see why having "screen names" is good and why

This sounds to me more like "better police involvement around the crime of stalking" than "okcupid are bad" I can see why having "screen names" is good and why having "Jenny S from NYC" beats "picture of Jennifer Smith, 32 acadia Avenue Queens" on the site profile but if it's crime we worry about, it's police we need. I would be interested in knowing if I am deaf to a much larger problem than I am aware of.

arijun 7y ago
“I can see why having a lock is better than leaving your door open, but if it’s robberies we worry about, it’s police we need.” Yeah I still would be upset if my landlord didn’t fix the lock on my door.
tomp 7y ago
Isn't it better to prevent undesirable behaviour in the first place rather than place additional burden on the police (for a trivial mostly non-dangerous behaviour)? Also, is stalking actually a crime now? When does "wanting to talk to someone" become a crime? Are recruiters stalking me on LinkedIn? What if they keep sending me emails and I keep not replying? I think the bar for putting people in jail should be much higher than that.
- Spacemolte 7y ago
  Eh, we are not really talking about facebook "stalking" with someone looking at your facebook profile, but about people continually harassing you and trying to contact you through all sorts of means. I think the bar for putting people in jail for the above is just right, might even be too low.
- JohnFen 7y ago
  > Also, is stalking actually a crime now? Stalking has a crime in all of the US states for 15 years, and has been a crime in most for longer than that. If you are repeatedly contacting or surveilling someone, despite being told to stop, and are making them feel unsafe or intimidated, then you are probably violating the laws against stalking.
pessimizer 7y ago
If the person who kills you is caught and prosecuted, it's almost like you're not even dead.

arijun 7y ago

“I can see why having a lock is better than leaving your door open, but if it’s robberies we worry about, it’s police we need.” Yeah I still would be upset if my landlord didn’t fix the lock on my door.

tomp 7y ago

Isn't it better to prevent undesirable behaviour in the first place rather than place additional burden on the police (for a trivial mostly non-dangerous behaviour)? Also, is stalking actually a crime now? When does "wanting to talk to someone" become a crime? Are recruiters stalking me on LinkedIn? What if they keep sending me emails and I keep not replying? I think the bar for putting people in jail should be much higher than that.

Spacemolte 7y ago
Eh, we are not really talking about facebook "stalking" with someone looking at your facebook profile, but about people continually harassing you and trying to contact you through all sorts of means. I think the bar for putting people in jail for the above is just right, might even be too low.
JohnFen 7y ago
> Also, is stalking actually a crime now? Stalking has a crime in all of the US states for 15 years, and has been a crime in most for longer than that. If you are repeatedly contacting or surveilling someone, despite being told to stop, and are making them feel unsafe or intimidated, then you are probably violating the laws against stalking.

pessimizer 7y ago

If the person who kills you is caught and prosecuted, it's almost like you're not even dead.