Who's gonna want to marry (let alone have kids with) a man who is unemployed and isn't even looking for work? This betrays your unfamiliarity with the segment

Who's gonna want to marry (let alone have kids with) a man who is unemployed and isn't even looking for work? This betrays your unfamiliarity with the segment of population under question. As it turns out, lots of women will readily have kids with those men. Along with the growth of single-man household, we observe growth of single never married women with children. See for example "Promises I Can Keep" (https://www.amazon.com/Promises-Can-Keep-Motherhood-Marriage/dp/0520241134 https://www.amazon.com/Promises-Can-Keep-Motherhood-Marriage...) and "Doing the Best I Can" (https://www.amazon.com/Doing-Best-Can-Fatherhood-Inner/dp/0520274067/ref=pd_cp_14_2?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&refRID=E0X6WP0P7S5V7EJ8C5Z9 https://www.amazon.com/Doing-Best-Can-Fatherhood-Inner/dp/05...) for some sociological view of realities about the lives of people this discussion revolves around.