> hould I respond in turn and completely cut all Christians out of my life, declaring them all intolerant? You've set up a straw man. Identifying as Christian

> hould I respond in turn and completely cut all Christians out of my life, declaring them all intolerant? You've set up a straw man. Identifying as Christian does not make someone intolerant. Many people who identify as Christian are intolerant of people who identify as gay. Discrimination against the first group due to the actions of the second is unfair. But refusing to engage with the second group is completely reasonable. Otherwise you allow intolerance toward gay people to be legitimized. That can lead to an erosion of rights. It's literally dangerous in the long term.