> as far as I can tell mean the same as gender neutral "they". Sometimes I forget that in English we don't allow multiple. words with the same meaning. /s If

> as far as I can tell mean the same as gender neutral "they". Sometimes I forget that in English we don't allow multiple. words with the same meaning. /s If someone asks you to use a nickname, you use it (despite it meaning the same thing as their legal name). A pronoun is no different and no more complex.