I think it might be you get your head blown, but only if you demand help and start denigrating a project because it should support this and that. I actually fou

I think it might be you get your head blown, but only if you demand help and start denigrating a project because it should support this and that. I actually found very good behavior in mailing lists to very outright rude or careless questions. To the point that I think such question or remarks in real life would constitute very unnecessary behavior.