So now your solution is for them to leave and go elsewhere. That's fine, it's workable. I just objected to this idea that they should work on their interesting

So now your solution is for them to leave and go elsewhere. That's fine, it's workable. I just objected to this idea that they should work on their interestingness and that doing so would somehow solve the problem of them finding someone. I think you acknowledge that even if they all become incredibly interesting, they wouldn't all be able to find partners.