> I don't care about what people will say at my funeral because I won't be there. Sorry, that's just stupid. Having people (honestly) say something nice about

> I don't care about what people will say at my funeral because I won't be there. Sorry, that's just stupid. Having people (honestly) say something nice about you at your funeral is not the end goal, but it's a _symptom_ of heaving lead a life that brought your closest people joy over a long time, and that is the end goal.