I'm aware. It is definitely frustrating, about as much so as reading the responses when floating the idea of feminism being a good thing for men, or trans right

I'm aware. It is definitely frustrating, about as much so as reading the responses when floating the idea of feminism being a good thing for men, or trans rights being a good thing for cis men, in /r/short. Everyone needs to chill, and then whoever has power in a given circumstance needs to start using it to promote equity and equality.