>Dad was in a managerial, if not directorial, position not threatened by industry collapse, and made enough so that his wife only had to work part time. I mean

>Dad was in a managerial, if not directorial, position not threatened by industry collapse, and made enough so that his wife only had to work part time. I mean, that would do it. I suppose it depends on when and where you grew up. Suffice it to say that this kind of upbringing sounds unusually high-end compared to the actual American middle class for the past 30-odd years (where you would likely find both parents working, home ownership a tenuous proposition, and private schools out of the question). I point this out mostly because we're sorely in need of a reexamination of what's "normal" and what should be normal in this country.