What you do or don’t love is not relevant. You’re free to provide me with no value at all if you choose. But I’m obviously not going to give you any of my money

What you do or don’t love is not relevant. You’re free to provide me with no value at all if you choose. But I’m obviously not going to give you any of my money in that case. If you want someone to give you money so that you can do things like experience the world, or eat, you have to provide something in return. You don’t get something for nothing.