I spent much time thinking about this, and planning the process for dating (didn't feel good at it, as I don't intuit social situations quickly but have to thin

I spent much time thinking about this, and planning the process for dating (didn't feel good at it, as I don't intuit social situations quickly but have to think things over more, and have been a jerk before). But met my now-wife online, and there are things I could have done better (like specific things to be better to people during the process), but these "process" notes I made from study helped me tremendously to have confidence, especially the "document" with its steps (about 1/2-way down): http://lukecall.net/e-9223372036854586947.html http://lukecall.net/e-9223372036854586947.html (a simple site). It has some religious things, but I hope it and the links, if explored, can be useful to anyone. The point is to pursue happiness in things that last, even across our generations.