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>My brother and I were from a normal middle class background but both went to fancy private schools. I find that people tend to either over or underestimate th
by bsanr2 7y ago
>My brother and I were from a normal middle class background but both went to fancy private schools.
I find that people tend to either over or underestimate the "middle class"iness of their upbringing.
- TheHegemon 7y agoSeriously, these two things do not go in hand in my mind.
- crgt 7y agoScholarships are a thing?
- asdfman123 7y agoNah, I didn't even need scholarships. The financial aid was really good for Stanford undergrad. My brother went to a state school undergrad, then got grad degrees from Harvard and Georgetown. He's almost done paying off an assload of debt, but it's meant he's had to work as a consultant these last ten years.
- snegu 7y agoI think everybody thought you were talking about "fancy private" elementary/high schools, which is definitely not a middle class thing. Private college/university is a totally different matter.
- dcole2929 7y agoThey have scholarships for private k-12 too. I went to one 6-12 and my family was at no point ever more than lower-middle class. I got what amounted to a full ride almost my entire time there. And even as the family made more still didn't pay much.
- asdfman123 7y agoMy dad worked for city government as a planner for a small suburban town and my mom worked part time as a bookkeeper. My childhood home's estimated value is like $185k. My parents were smart and had a little extra cultural capital but yeah, we were pretty middle class. Maybe lower-upper-middle class.
- datavirtue 7y agoThat's definitely lower middle class. Barely scraping the bottom. I'm there on one income in a low Col area. It's comfortable and life is easy but I'm on the edge of failure at any moment.
- bsanr2 7y ago>Dad was in a managerial, if not directorial, position not threatened by industry collapse, and made enough so that his wife only had to work part time. I mean, that would do it. I suppose it depends on when and where you grew up. Suffice it to say that this kind of upbringing sounds unusually high-end compared to the actual American middle class for the past 30-odd years (where you would likely find both parents working, home ownership a tenuous proposition, and private schools out of the question). I point this out mostly because we're sorely in need of a reexamination of what's "normal" and what should be normal in this country.