I was going to reply something to this effect - it's ok to climb or whatever, but do things on your own terms without caring about how other people are doing. Y

I was going to reply something to this effect - it's ok to climb or whatever, but do things on your own terms without caring about how other people are doing. You can still be happy for their success and should be, but as long as you give an effort you're happy with, that should be enough.