I really don't think either situation is as binary as you make it. My latest company hired me through a recruiter and my current long term gf I met in lerson fi

I really don't think either situation is as binary as you make it. My latest company hired me through a recruiter and my current long term gf I met in lerson first. Have also had a shorter term thing over Tinder, which also went well. Either way, success is an organic thing after the first steps.