My friends don’t know my dating criteria. Jobs can be well defined, but personal preferences are more difficult to express. Nuances matter. The real problem is

My friends don’t know my dating criteria. Jobs can be well defined, but personal preferences are more difficult to express. Nuances matter. The real problem is not with online dating but with fake accounts. I used to write well crafted letters that resulted in interesting dates. Now, I have no easy way of verifying I am not writing to a bot.