>If your spouse does something that drives you nuts, do you bottle that resentment up and save it for later (too late) or do you have the open and honest conver

>If your spouse does something that drives you nuts, do you bottle that resentment up and save it for later (too late) or do you have the open and honest conversation to get through it early? Of course not, I wait until the end of the year, compose a 360 analysis using feedback from 5 of her peers, and we work through her KPIs together. Come on, this isn't about ego, if you had the social interaction of a "performance review" in any other setting, people would think you're a psychopath. Coming away from these meetings with positive feelings seems more like Stockholm syndrome than anything else.