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Your view of the (lack of) intrinsic value in the enjoyment of hobbies is off putting. Maybe try a hobby that you enjoy just for the heck of it rather than to c
by veggieburglar 7y ago
Your view of the (lack of) intrinsic value in the enjoyment of hobbies is off putting. Maybe try a hobby that you enjoy just for the heck of it rather than to check a box on your personal brand? Guaranteed that being legitimately interested in something outside of work will make you more attractive to a potential member of your dating pool. It doesn’t even matter what it is necessarily!
- xenihn 7y agoNot sure how you got that impression. I like my hobbies. Your presented hobbies != your actual hobbies. I'm just sharing advice that will potentially better your odds.
- mkohlmyr 7y agoThe entire concept of "presented hobbies" is what we are taking issue with. What wwould this better your odds for? Short-term dating success perhaps. I'm pretty sure there are better long-term strategies for happiness. Be yourself, like what you like (unashamedly), and you will likely attract people into your life who like those same things, and indeed you.
- veggieburglar 7y agoMy point exactly.
- xenihn 7y agoWhat do you have against short-term dating?