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It has taken me a long time to internalize that grief is not a “bad” feeling, but rather just an uncomfortable one. Until I was fully willing to experience it,
by dundercoder 7y ago
It has taken me a long time to internalize that grief is not a “bad” feeling, but rather just an uncomfortable one. Until I was fully willing to experience it, instead of avoid or ignore it, I was completely unable to move on. Grief is indeed strange.
- Fnoord 7y agoCan't we argue this is true for all "bad" feelings? If they were utterly useless, why would they still exist? They have a function. Love and grief is basically akin to "what goes up must go down". No high without the low, like the rollercoaster life is.