"There is a stigma attached to middle-aged job hunters. Why hasn't he found his dream job by now--is he fickle and hard to please? Why isn't he already rich? "

"There is a stigma attached to middle-aged job hunters. Why hasn't he found his dream job by now--is he fickle and hard to please? Why isn't he already rich? " It's funny you mention this. An unmarried (and has never been married) friend of mine who is in his 40s says he has the same problem with dating. Women wonder: why isn't he married? is he afraid of commitment?