To be honest, I feel that Oculus/Facebook are really fair with their headsets. All of their headsets can natively play SteamVR titles and there is no major gate

To be honest, I feel that Oculus/Facebook are really fair with their headsets. All of their headsets can natively play SteamVR titles and there is no major gatekeeping in that direction. Sure, they do have criteria for getting included in their store but they are not blocking anyone from using other kind of software. With Oculus Quest, they are even slightly allowing "unofficial" content on the device with sideloading APKs onto the device. They could close everything down if they wanted but they seem to be quite fair so far. As a developer, you can stay on SteamVR and ignore Oculus. If your content is good, people will use their Oculus headsets with SteamVR to access your content.