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So... how changing a name averts that situation? By hoping that the kid never finds out? And should current developers rather abstain from continuing developmen
by ilammy 7y ago
So... how changing a name averts that situation? By hoping that the kid never finds out? And should current developers rather abstain from continuing development as they obviously behave as insensitive egoistic jerks that instead should drink some brain bleach, bury the project, and move on? Come one, that’s ridiculous. It’s more irrational than blaming the gun for the murder: it’s like blaming the word for that and pretending that if you call it something else then it did not happen.
- throwlaplace 7y agoyou're still not making the attempt; it requires imagining being that person. my point is very simple and obvious: having to constantly be presented with the name of your abuser is painful.
- Yver 7y agoIf you have to imagine it then this is concern trolling.
- throwlaplace 7y agoi don't understand what you're getting at? that's the definition of empathy: https://www.merriam-webster.com/words-at-play/sympathy-empathy-difference https://www.merriam-webster.com/words-at-play/sympathy-empat... the implication is that even though i haven't had my mother murdered i can simulate the experience and thereby relate (to an extent) to someone that has and make decisions with those insights in mind. Edit: I just realized that what you probably meant is that if it's never happened to me then I can't genuinely be concerned. I didn't even know that that was something people believed. Interesting. Why would anyone pretend to be concerned for someone else's wellbeing?
- gdy 7y ago"Why would anyone pretend to be concerned for someone else's wellbeing?" Virtue signalling.
- throwlaplace 7y agoI'm posting from a throwaway. What is the incentive for me to signal anything?
- gdy 7y agoThat sweet feeling of being better than others.
- throwlaplace 7y agoMakes no sense - signals have to have objects. If I wanted to feel better than others I just would
- popularrecluse 7y agoAh... "virtue signaling". What the sociopaths among us have branded empathy they cannot feel or understand in others. Just because it is not an emotion you have, does not mean it is not real for others.
- gdy 7y agoIf your 'empathy' is just words that don't cost you anything, it as well could be you who is a sociopath pretending to have real feelings.
- jyounker 7y agoIs concern trolling newspeak for expressing empathy?