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It's very useful for non-monogamous people: you meet someone, have a good interaction, sex, etc. and write a good reference for them. The problem though is tha
by devit 7y ago
It's very useful for non-monogamous people: you meet someone, have a good interaction, sex, etc. and write a good reference for them.
The problem though is that there's an incentive to game the system.
- nolok 7y agoNobody does that. I don't know what would feel worse, having to write reviews/reference of my one night stand for other guys, or having her write one about me for other girls. Sounds more like an escorting service than a dating one. If a guy/gal is really great, you would be with him/her, or try to rekindle the relation ship. Heck like this one that looks like it sounds great, "He was great, except for that one thing that I won't give detail about but was bad enough to stop me from wanting a relationship with him now or ever", that's not even a really good reference for dating, more like a huge red flag ...
- devit 7y agoWith a perfectly working dating system, there is no need to have or want relationships, because you can just find other person using the dating system. You simply no longer see the person because you like to interact and have sex and do activities with many different people, not because of "red flags". Or if you still want relationships, then the "red flag" is just "was merely a good fit but not an excellent fit for me".