I know you're mostly joking, but it's really not that bad. I think the problem is most of us guys don't have any sense of which photos are actually flattering o

I know you're mostly joking, but it's really not that bad. I think the problem is most of us guys don't have any sense of which photos are actually flattering of ourselves and how to write a description that actually shows some personality (without being weird). Also, the "swipe right on everyone" move most guys seem to have is a terrible idea, Tinder and co. tend to factor that into your ranking/visibility. Ask a friend (preferably female) for advice on your profile and if you've got crappy pics go get some better ones (or hire a professional to help). And as for the attractiveness scale, if you find yourself lower down on the scale know that you're playing a game that is not in your favor since you can't show off your other great qualities there. So you need to find people that are of your similar level of attractiveness to find better success.