> ... it is usually stressful on the marriage... So true. My wife and I noticed that several of our friends who had renovated their house on the way to a big

> ... it is usually stressful on the marriage... So true. My wife and I noticed that several of our friends who had renovated their house on the way to a big showcase (e.g., to become one of the homes on a home design tour) ended up getting divorced right after the big showcase. They lost their focus on what really mattered.