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Your first paragraph is absolutist, judgemental, and, frankly, very naive. Our household has very open finances. We have dinner table talks about dollar cost a
by TomVDB 7y ago
Your first paragraph is absolutist, judgemental, and, frankly, very naive.
Our household has very open finances. We have dinner table talks about dollar cost averaging, compounded growth, and investing in broad mutual funds.
Kids have a bank account with debit card at 14, and a personal Vanguard account at 18, as well as a Roth IRA in which we match their taxable earnings.
And the kids know that making money is hard: they tutor, they create their own Kickstarter campaigns, they work as a cashier for extras.
They know how to make a budget and what things cost.
But no amount of your discussion or financial education is going change the mind of a very determined, strong headed youngster who “doesn’t want to live in the bubble of Silicon Valley anyway” and wants to pursue a non-technical creative course of live.
- pnutjam 7y agoAlot of your points, show an upper middle class lifestyle. Your kids probably live in a bubble with other similar kids. You need to expose them to people who have made bad decisions. Seeing how people live can be very illustrative.
- xwdv 7y agoWell then I just hope that youngster is also prepared to find some creative ways to make money.
- TomVDB 7y agoI hope so too. Just don’t assume that avoiding the parental flaws that you think you’ve identified to be the root is a silver bullet.